I always thought I was satisfying my wife in the bedroom. Our sex life was tame by some people’s standards but I was always happy, and she always seemed fulfilled as well. It came as a total shock to me when she suggested we introduce toys into our bedroom. To be honest, I was a little hurt. I didn’t thing we needed anything extra to enhance our lovemaking, and the idea that she wanted anything besides me pleasing her was a bit of a blow to my ego.
Over beers with a friend one night after work I made a casual joke about sex toys. I was hoping to gauge his reaction to the subject without making it personal but instead of laughing at my comment he confessed that he and his wife use toys more often than not in the bedroom. I was taken aback by the candid way he talked about the toys, and the fact that he had no shame at all in discussing them. He told me that one of his favourite toys to use on his wife was a G-Spot vibrator. I’d never heard of the G-Spot, and not wanting to confess my ignorance to my friend I decided instead to look it up on my own.
What I learned is that the female G-Spot is a bean sized spot of tissue on the front wall of a woman’s vagina. The website I pulled up advised that while all women are different, this tissue is usually a few inches below a woman’s navel. I also learned that this spot can be easy to find, as it swells differently than the tissue around it when a woman is aroused. I read several comments made by men and women alike that insisted that the G-Spot is the source of the best female orgasm, and stimulating it correctly can cause a woman to ejaculate much like a man. I was shocked to read that. I’m confident that I’ve given my wife orgasms but I know she’s never ejaculated. I decided to swallow my pride and order a toy like the one my friend had suggested.
I was overwhelmed by the selection of toys I found online; eventually I chose the Posh 10-Function Teaser because it had the best customer reviews. Instead of telling my wife about my purchase I decided to surprise her with it after it arrived.
I have to admit, the reaction on my wife’s face when I showed her the vibrator alone was worth the price of the toy. She was immediately turned on and dragged me into the bedroom to give the vibrator a burl. I was shocked by how aroused I became using the toy on her. She made noises that night I’d never heard her make before, and after several orgasms of her own she enthusiastically turned her attention to pleasing me.
Since that night my wife and I have collected a variety of sex toys of all shapes, sizes and purposes. My only wish is that I’d discovered the benefits of them sooner!